Occasionally, we are unable to comprehend why certain parents have the courage to abandon their children. Others had their reasons. It is nevertheless unethical to desert a kid because of his or her malformity.
This is what occurred to Yaroslave Oleinik. She was born with a half-face. Her father abandoned her upon seeing her for the first time after she was born. Now, she’s 17 years old and doing everything possible to locate the man who leaves her because of her appearance.
She is now a teenager and wants to discover her biological father. He abandoned his whole family, according to her, after seeing her deformed face at the hospital.
Olenik is a Kostanay native. According to her, she lost half of her face at birth owing to a congenital health problem. She also did not have a nose or left eye as a result.
She’s always been aware that she was different from other children her age. But she didn’t allow this to deter her from achieving her goals. She had always desired to share her music with the world, and it’s something she never gave up on.
She began posting photos on Instagram when she was 14 years old and used the site to promote her music. She made it clear to the world that she wanted one thing, and that was to become a famous musician so her father would be proud of her.
Oleinik was not an abandoned child like previous ones. When she was conceived, both her mother and father wanted to have her. Her parents were unaware of her birth defects until then. That’s when everything began to shift. Her father simply glanced at her face and made the decision that he didn’t want her anymore.
She was loved by her mother, even though she had been abandoned by her father. She stated, “My mother accepted my unusual look. She loves me and takes good care of me.” Olenik’s father is a commercial truck driver. He has a decent income, but he has never provided financial assistance to his family. As a result, her mother was forced to raise her on her own due to lack of financial assistance from him.
She has never met her father since she was born until now, when she’s already a teenager. Even though she put her all into finding him through her music, he remained elusive. She stated, “My father left us right after seeing me in the maternity hospital. We have not seen him or heard from him ever since.”
Despite never having the opportunity to meet her, Oleinik has no ill will against him. Instead, she is still hopeful that he will have a change of heart and decide to meet her after all these years. She stated, “I found his profiles and tried to contact him, but he never messaged back. My mother says: ‘Why are you doing this. He might not want to communicate with you…’ But I’m curious how he is doing. He is my father, after all. ”
She discovered how to love herself despite the fact that it was difficult to comprehend and accept why she was distinct from the typical.
