Most people do not have a good relationship with their ex-lovers. Unless you were able to reconcile and make amends, you would move on from your ex and try to form new connections with different people. However, one New Jersey man was caught on camera peeing on the gravesite of his ex-wife, whom he divorced forty-eight years ago.

The family of the woman installed a hidden camera near her tombstone to catch anyone who might disturb her final resting place. The hidden camera caught exactly what they hoped they would never find – a man driving up to the gravesite in his SUV so he could urinate on the woman’s remains and desecrate her memory forever.

The man who was caught urinating on the woman’s grave did not know he was being recorded. Not only did he take his current wife with him, but he showed her what he does to people he divorces; this includes those from nearly fifty years ago.

Michael Murphy, 43, shared shocking footage on Facebook of his mother’s gravesite. Linda Louise Torello passed away from cancer at the age of sixty-six in 2017 and has been buried at the site since then.

Bags of feces were being left at the gravesite of Murphy’s mother. Because someone was clearly messing with the site of her final resting place, Murphy reasoned that it would be prudent to set up a hidden camera in order to catch the offender in action. When the individual emerged and urinated on the woman’s tomb, he got more than he bargained for.

The former spouse of Murphy’s mother came to her grave five mornings in a row, ignoring the reality that she was dead, and doing something illegal to the ground. Although it is uncertain what prompted him to desecrate her gravesite, video footage reveals that he had no concern for the lady or her final resting place.

The man initially spoke ill of Murphy’s half-sister to her, claiming he was sorry he had her. However, it is unclear why the individual came to Torello’s grave and urinate on her plot in the ground.

“THIS IS BREAKING MY HEART,” Murphy wrote. “A man from Bergen county New Jersey has been leaving bags of poo and pissing on my mother’s tombstone almost every morning like a normal routine’ assisted by his wife also. We have weeks and months of evidence. It has been reported to the police and the news outlets. No one in my family has had contact with him since 1976 or so. How he found my mother’s grave site, we are not sure. But this stems back to a problem almost 50 years ago. Pray for us, thank you, and please share this!!!”