Celebrities like Arnold, who show their c-section scars, are praised for being strong and not ashamed of their life changes. We all change during pregnancy. Some last seconds while others can take up to a lifetime, but we should never be embarrassed by what makes us unique. This blog post is for any woman who has been body-shamed by an “ideal” celebrity pregnancy with no visible scars from childbirth. Celebrities have come under fire after showing off their scarred bodies that result from having children via caesarian section (c-sections). However, these celebrities shouldn’t feel self-conscious about something as trivial as giving birth because 1 in 4 women will need or get a c/s during labor.
Stretching out her back into an arabesque, the dancer showcases how much she has accomplished since winning “Dancing with the Stars.” But what caught everyone’s attention was not her flawless form. But instead, it was what she wasn’t wearing. In a recent Instagram post, Lindsay shared herself in nothing more than black and white polka dot swimsuit bottoms – which showed off her stretch marks. “I always felt insecure about my stomach… I would hide under baggy clothes because there were parts of me that didn’t feel like they matched up to other people,” wrote Lindsay in the caption for this empowering snap. “When a new mom shares her pregnancy and postpartum experience with stretch marks, she encourages women to love themselves as they are, scars included!
We can take their advice, or we can delete the unwanted comment. We don’t have to respond in any way, shape, or form. What is so disheartening about social media criticism is that it makes people think they are obligated to say something back. There’s no need for a response, and sometimes there’s nothing you can do because someone wants what they want without regard for why you did what you did. People should appreciate your work and not try and tear it down with negative words. Everyone has an opinion, but when someone attacks another person on social media, it doesn’t make them better than anyone else; instead, it shows how insecure they are!
I think we’ve gone too far with being so self-conscious that women are afraid to be seen without clothes on, but there’s also nothing wrong with staying fit and healthy! These social media posts bring attention to the conversation, though we all have opinions on this topic! So let’s discuss today! What do you guys think? Is Lindsey representing well or just showing off for no reason? Do people even consider these photos as they strut around in their bikinis at the beach or poolside? There are many benefits of attending a support group for self-esteem. One use is that you will not be the only one with low confidence and insecurities so that it won’t feel like an isolated struggle anymore. Another advantage is listening as others share their stories; I think we’d all agree there’s comfort knowing someone else has dealt or struggles with similar issues at hand such as anxiety, negative thoughts about themselves, etc. It can often prove quite comforting to know that people around us have experienced some/all of what we’re going through too! At least then things don’t seem so “isolated,” which might help boost our sense of positivity & hope.”
