In yet another snub that has set conservative circles ablaze, former First Lady Michelle Obama chose to skip President Donald Trump’s second inauguration, drawing sharp criticism for her apparent disdain for tradition and protocol. The decision comes on the heels of her controversial absence at the funeral of former President Jimmy Carter, which she also missed due to what was described as an “extended vacation” in Hawaii.
While former President Barack Obama attended Trump’s inauguration without his wife, sitting alongside other former presidents and first ladies, Michelle’s absence raised eyebrows. A statement from the Obamas’ office confirmed her decision: “Former President Barack Obama is confirmed to attend the 60th Inaugural Ceremonies. Former First Lady Michelle Obama will not attend the upcoming inauguration.”
The move has been widely interpreted as a deliberate snub toward the Trump family. Anonymous sources close to Michelle Obama seem to confirm this sentiment. “There’s no overstating her feelings about [Trump]. She’s not one to plaster on a pleasant face and pretend for protocol’s sake,” one source claimed. “Michelle doesn’t do anything because it’s expected or it’s tradition.”
Conservatives, however, see her absence as a blatant lack of class and decorum. Social media users were quick to voice their disapproval. One user, known as *The Duke of Spain*, posted: “Michelle Obama should take a class on how to be classy, and maybe she should take it from Melania [Trump]. Not showing up at Carter’s funeral is one thing. Not showing up to Trump’s inauguration is 100% classless. It speaks volumes and not surprised.”
Michelle Obama should take a class on how to be classy and maybe she should take it from Melania, she knows how to behave. Not showing up at Carter's funeral is one thing. Not showing up to Trump's inauguration is 100% classless. It speaks volumes and not surprised.
— The Duke of Spain (@francisofspain) January 15, 2025
Fox News also pointed out the contrast between Michelle Obama’s actions and those of other former first ladies. “SECOND SNUB: Former President Barack Obama will not be accompanied by former First Lady Michelle Obama at Trump’s second inauguration, even though all other living former presidents and first ladies are planning to attend,” the outlet posted on X.
Even cultural icons weighed in on the controversy. Kid Rock, during an interview with Fox News’ Jesse Watters, highlighted the hypocrisy of Michelle Obama’s absence. “When [Barack] Obama was first elected, I did not vote for him, but they asked me to play the inauguration. And I went, had a good time, out of respect for the presidency. I would kindly remind Miss Michelle about that,” he said. Kid Rock didn’t hold back, adding, “She seems a little angry. I don’t know. If you can’t say something nice…”
The left, however, rushed to Michelle Obama’s defense. ABC’s *The View* celebrated her decision to skip Trump’s inauguration, with co-host Sunny Hostin going as far as to say, “I think when they go low, you have to meet that energy and perhaps go even lower, become small like an ant and go to the earth’s crust.” Hostin’s comments directly contradicted Michelle’s famous mantra, “When they go low, we go high.”
The controversy also reignited claims from Michelle Obama’s camp that she didn’t enjoy Trump’s first inauguration due to a supposed lack of “diversity” on stage—a statement conservatives argue is yet another baseless jab at Trump’s administration.
For many on the right, Michelle Obama’s repeated absence from key national events reflects the very divisiveness she claims to oppose. Her decision not only snubs tradition but also reinforces the growing cultural divide between elites who dismiss conservative values and the everyday Americans who respect the office of the presidency, regardless of who holds it.
