Tahlia Skaines, a 29-year-old Australian influencer with over 800,000 followers, has stirred up a firestorm online over what she chose to wear as a guest at someone else’s wedding. In an era where tradition and modesty seem to be fading in many circles, Skaines’ choice of a daring cream gown with a plunging neckline and a revealing cut-out has sparked widespread debate.

Skaines posted a series of glamorous photos of herself in the provocative dress, captioning them, “A beautiful day celebrating love.” Predictably, her loyal followers were quick to shower her with praise. Comments like “Stunning” and “Beautiful” flooded her post, with fans eager to applaud her look.

However, not everyone was impressed. The racy outfit quickly became a topic of discussion in more conservative corners of social media, where users were left questioning whether such an attention-grabbing look was appropriate for someone else’s big day. The debate erupted when someone shared the photos in a Facebook group, asking if anyone else found the outfit a bit “excessive” for a wedding guest.

And excessive it was—at least, in the eyes of those who value traditional etiquette. While some argued that times have changed and it’s perfectly acceptable to wear such a revealing outfit, others pointed out the long-standing rule of not upstaging the bride. One critic didn’t mince words, claiming, “I would politely ask her to change outfits or leave.” Another added, “It’s tacky and disrespectful—she’s clearly trying to compete with the bride.”

It seems the basic tenets of modesty and respect for the occasion are now up for debate. Once upon a time, it was common sense to avoid wearing white—or anything close to it—at a wedding. This was out of deference to the bride, the true star of the day. But now, it appears many believe that personal style and Instagram likes matter more than maintaining decorum.

In a world where social media influencers are more focused on flaunting their looks than respecting tradition, this trend isn’t going away anytime soon. This isn’t the first time an influencer has faced backlash for their questionable choice of wedding attire. Just last week, fellow Aussie influencer Isabella Mathers caused a similar uproar when she donned a satin and lace gown that resembled a bridal dress—at her own father’s wedding, no less.

Mathers, who boasts over a million followers, claimed the dress wasn’t actually white but a “baby pink” shade, attempting to deflect criticism. Still, her gown looked more like a wedding dress than what the actual bride wore—a floral number. The whole affair, documented on Instagram in true influencer style, left many wondering whether the concept of taste and restraint has been lost in the pursuit of likes and followers.

While influencers like Skaines and Mathers are free to wear what they choose, the larger question remains: Have we become so obsessed with social media approval that we’ve forgotten basic manners and respect for others? Skaines may have earned praise from her fanbase, but many of us are left shaking our heads at the ever-growing divide between modern values and timeless traditions.

At a time when societal norms are constantly being challenged, it’s refreshing to see there are still some who believe weddings should be about the couple, not the guest trying to steal the spotlight.