Arlington National Cemetery is one of the most sacred places in America.
In the late 1940s, Gladys Vandenberg, wife of General Hoyt Vandenberg, noticed that some burials taking place there did not have any family or friends present to say goodbye.
She decided to invite other military wives to attend the lonely services to ensure that no soldier was ever buried alone.In time, an organization called the Arlington ladies was formed.
There is a group for each branch of the military, mostly made up of women married to active service members or veterans. The ladies attend funerals and burials regardless of the weather and are known for their dedication.
When needed, the women also meet with families of the deceased soldiers before services begin to offer support and compassion.
Doreen Huylebroeck, whose husband is buried at Arlington, began working with the Navy ladies after her husband’s death. She said it was the least she could do because that is how she would want to be treated.The ladies provide an exemplary level of care, empathy and honor to those who fell while protecting America’s freedoms.
The very best gift is often just being present and letting others know they are not alone even in death.
