Billy Flynn went above and beyond for his ex-wife’s birthday this year. He got up early, bought gifts and flowers, and helped his sons make her breakfast.

Some people responded to Flynn’s story with disdain, calling him weak or saying that he was wasting his time. Flynn responded on his Facebook page, explaining that ultimately, his behavior had nothing to do with his ex-wife and everything to do with their sons.

“I’m raising two little men. The example I set for how I treat their mom is going to significantly shape how they see and treat women and affect their perception of relationships.”

Because he and the boys’ mother are divorced, Flynn explains, his behavior towards her is even more important in setting an example for his boys.

Flynn closes his message with a powerful directive. “Raise good men. Raise strong women. Please. The world needs them, now more than ever.”

Flynn’s words certainly ring true, and without a doubt, Flynn will raise his boys into strong men who treat women with respect and kindness. What is best for children is always, Flynn stresses, mutual respect between their parents, whether they are together or not.

To mistreat a child’s other parent is a traumatic experience for a child, Flynn says, so he will continue to work hard not to make their lives more traumatic.

Flynn’s attitude is refreshing and inspiring. The children are watching us, so it’s important to always act with care.